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Thursday, October 4, 2018
Th day that I'm penning this down on my blog, I've already got my status changed. I still can't believe that I'm a wife now. We got solemnized on a Thursday night, 27th February 2018. And our reception was held on th 3rd & 4th of March. Alhamdulillah, th event was smooth despite a little bit of hiccups here and there, which was unnoticed. It has been almost 8 months as a husband and wife. Marriage life ain't easy. It's no longer about only love, it's about responsibilities. Many said that th first few months of marriage life will be tough. And yes! We have that main problem of trying to adapt to one another's family, living in each other's house etc. We both came from a different upbringing. But it's okay. Patience. Great things take time. He is no longer my boyfriend, but my HUSBAND. Di mana syurgaku terletak di bawah telapak kaki suamiku. I have to keep telling myself to tone down on my temper. Myself being egoistic and short-tempered, as always. Th first few months was very rough for us. But, we didn't give up just yet. Although, it's sad that I almost did. I tried to give it a chance again. Ever since I got solemnized again legally on the 5th of Aug, I have started to pray to keep myself and our marriage standing strong. Even though belum penuh lima waktu lagi.. I realized th moment when I was down, all I ever need is Allah swt. Aku juga berharap suamiku boleh menjadi imamku suatu hari nanti. Insha allah. Amin yra.
Here are some of th pictures taken on our big day.
   
And our post wedding photoshoot...
 
Just a special shoutout to thank everyone who is involved in our wedding reception. Especially to ibu & bapak, THANK YOU for being th most understanding parents of all, and accepting my other half. We are deeply sorry for th mess. Thank you to my maternal side for helping your asses out, our bestmen (Abdillah & Baisha), our bridesmaids (Atika & Khairiah), our bridal (Puteh by Rhis), our deco (AJ City Wedding), our cameraman (HMP Studio), my uncle's kumpulan kompang Nurul Ihsan, Khair Henna, th DJ & liveband (Outcry), and thank you also to our friends for taking their time to come down to our big day. Very much appreciated.
 At first, kita tak nak sanding cos we think that it is a waste of time and money. But, after th event, our sanding moments were th most precious and memorable event! Nak rewind balik please? Hehe. #AxFnuptials
Anyway, I'd like to apologize to myself first for tarnishing my page with this paragraph, but I need to rant it out. For some motherfuckers who don't know shit and loves passing judgement... Tak payah lah kan nak cakap nikah kita halal ke tidak. Kau pergi google tentang Aeril & Wawa yang somewhat in th same boat as us. Tak salah memperbaharui nikah itu. Nikah itu senang aje. Maskahwin, wali dan dua saksi. Wali tu sebaik-baiknya bapa kandung kita sendiri yang nikahkan kita. Pernikahan kali pertama kita sempurna je. Ada ustaz pun. Yes, we got our own reasons for why things turned out messy. Kau nak go around and tell th whole world about th civil marriage and panggil aku "bini no. 2" ehh? Ehh girl. Dalam Islam, aku isteri pertama dia. Dan pernikahan dia tak sah pun dengan bini lama dia. Dia by law dah bercerai pun, ape yang kau nak kekekkan dia sangat? Berape ramai orang pun ada biken kerja macam dia. Ye lah. Laki aku je lah jahat. Laki kau kan macam malaikat. Tak pernah ada masa silam. Macam kau jugak. And, aku terima dia sebab "kahwin" pertama dia tu tak pernah sah pun and dia tak kenal pun perempuan tu. For these 8 years, it has always been me in his heart. By th way, sedar lah diri sikit yang kau tu pernah jadi janda. Sekiranya kau nikah bila kau tengah hamil, nikah tu lah yang tak sah. Dan kene nikah lagi sekali bila baby dah keluar. So, nikah dengan laki lama kau tu halal ke tidak? Ke kau tak pernah nikah sebelum ni? Hmmm. Just a random thought laa kan. Hahahaha. Bebual champion ni sundel. So toxic. Please fuck off from our lives. Aku bersyukur walaupun dia pernah "jahat" dulu, tapi deep down inside dia ni seorang yang baik. He never ever forget his responsibilities. Walaupun dia ni ada juga kekurangan dia, a little bit of attitude problem, but apa aku kisah? Aku pilih dia. Aku sayang sangat dengan dia. I believe he can change for th better. He thinks of others more than he thinks of himself. Not like some self-centered people. Sendiri mau ingat. Tak berkat dan tak akan pernah senang hidup kalau tak tanggung mak bapak. Busuk-busuk pun, diorang yang susah payah membesarkan kau. Enough said.
. . . . On a happier note ... 
I checked our HLE status today, and HDB is asking for my September payslip. Submitted. Hopefully by next week, our loan will be approved. We were busy checking out Property Guru yesterday night. Location wise? Still Jurong lah. Prolly looking at 700+, 800+ areas. Husband still wanna look for houses near to his house.. at old jurong west area. But I'm still being firm on my reasons why I don't want to. Hahaha. Hopefully by next year, we will already have our own house and build our new life together, with our kids, maybe? Me can't wait :D We are still trying to conceive. People have been asking us, "dah ada?". Belum ada rezeki kita lagi kali ini. Mudah-mudahan, kita akan menjadi seorang ibu & ayah to our baby AF tahun depan. Amin amin amin!
Ending my post for now. I'll update again once I have something in mind. Bye! Labels: and i'm already married |
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